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I would argue that, beyond story structure and trying to keep us sympathetic to the main characters, it’s actually realistic we don’t see much fallout from Paul and Diane’s use of the potion. Mainly because the people they use it on never find out it’s been used on them. YES realistically it still counts as sexual assault, and their reactions next morning would vary. A real life drugged person who never knew they were drugged has still been assaulted. But especially in this movie verse, using such an unrealistic tool, there’s fair suspension of disbelief that the victims really likely never suspect they were hoodwinked. We see one kind of come-down from the potion of this fashion- when Marisa uses the potion on Gary, we do get the pleasure of seeing it wear off right in the middle of his kissing her. His reaction is basically to break the kiss, look at her oddly, wipe his mouth off, and just walk away, looking a little disturbed, but despite his use of the potion, I don’t think he’s smart enough to really get what happened, and in that vein, he doesn’t seem mad or upset, he just ignores her, throwing her away like he used to throw Diane away when he’d had his way with her and lost interest. I think it was likely even more seamless with Paul and Diane’s victims. Paul had mostly some one-night stands with college girls and attractive women in bars. As they were clear-headed, and remembering everything they were thinking and feeling, they probably are mainly distressed while they’re still obsessed with him, and when it wears off, they remember seeing him as attractive and having all these wild thoughts, but the obsession is gone and it likely becomes as much shame as they might get from any one night stand, because they do not have any reason in any shape or form to believe they were manipulated. They don’t magically assume some love potion drug has been made just cause they mistook their meeting with some rando as love-at-first-sight. Just poor decision making. Similarly, Diane’s a fairly cute girl, and the men she tricks into swarming her likely come out of it feeling like they wasted a bit of money, and “oh shes really not as amazing as I thought, she was just a fresh face I guess.” The biggest fallout I was actually expecting, and disappointed not to see even as a kid, was the Prince- I believed we were bound to see some kind of fallout there, as big as the self-centered Prince correctly assuming she brainwashed him (though the people around him would probably think he was crazy) or as little as him being embarrassed at questions about his new girl on TV, and paying Diane to stay away (in this case, not believing she had done anything to him, and so not realizing he’s only snapped out of it because she’s no longer interested, herself.)

This is I think a typical story build- yes, the potion is rapey and wrong to use, but quite critically, our main characters *do not get this.* Faced with this unrealistic situation, they see their actions as harmless, and based on the reactions they get, it seems like it. But as with any story about the dangers of that kind of power, it comes back to bite them later, as they *do* know what the potion is and are forced to learn that this power is wrong, and are very, painfully aware of what happened when they are violated and traumatized by others turning the situation on them. It’s like Bruce Almighty, where he gets the power to be god and clearly doesn’t regret a lick of his actions, thinking everything’s going well, loving his power to forcibly arouse his girlfriend (which is its own kind of assault-y mess), and he’s even doing good by people when he decides to say Yes to all their prayers. But then the power backfires, as all the consequences of his choices pile up. There are other examples- the movies about characters switching bodies, at first enjoying themselves then being hit by the difficulties of the others life they weren’t expecting, etcetera etcetera. Instead of showing immediate consequences to the “Fun and Games” portion of the story, there comes a time when they’re forced to be the victims of their own scam. That’s where the lesson, that using the potion in the first place was wrong, is communicated.

However, all that said, I don’t think this movie would be played out this playful or family-friendly nowadays, mainly because of the awareness around such matters of consent today. I feel like the movie would be explicit, with an adult rating, and we would see some kind of unexpected fallout/punishment for every use of the potion, really trying to hammer in the real-life point, that using a substance, be it alcohol or drugs, to alter someone’s mind still equals assault, whether the person believed they wanted it or not. I think it would actually be interesting to see the movie remade in that lens.

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